We seem to find some topics too intimate to discuss. We want to, but we simply don't seem to have learned how. We don't ask each other about our physical relationships. This puts all responsibility on the person who has experienced a difficult situation in the sexual field to bring up sexual abuse against all rules.

While 33% of women and 8% of men in the Netherlands have experienced physical sexual violence, we seem to be avoiding the discussion about this collectively. Social designers Anne Ligtenberg and Mats Horbach believe this is not on purpose, but it seems too intimate to talk about.

Together with Blauwe Maan (an organization that offers help to victims of sexual abuse) Anne and Mats are working on a platform where victims can give tips to carers and social workers so that they are better prepared and know how to respond and communicate with new victims come forward.

So if you have experience and want to share your thoughts on this, please call our tipline 085-3031074. Thank you!


In collaboration with Blauwe Maan

Supported by Stimuleringsfonds Creatieve Industrie


Photography Anniek Mol


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